Hello, Mr. Goodbar

August 1984

In the summer of ’84, my dad embarked on a special welding project for the equestrian events at the Los Angeles Olympics. Little did I know, this opportunity would open doors for me to experience my first riding lessons. It all began when a connection from my dad’s contract introduced me to a woman who offered her lessons to her home in the San Fernando Valley.

Under her guidance, I was introduced to a magnificent chestnut gelding named “Mr Goodbar,” affectionately known as Goodie. Goodie was owned by her 13-year-old son, who was cast as the boy in the for a role in the iconic movie, “The Black Stallion.” but wasn’t able to star in the film because he broke his leg prior to shooting. It was through our contrasting relationships with this horse that I discovered the profound power of connection over force.

While Goodie’s owner was a skilled and assertive rider, I, at the tender age of six, arrived with nothing more than an unwavering desire to be around horses. Yet, this didn’t deter me from believing in my own potential. Through my time spent with Goodie, I began to understand that true leadership stemmed from genuine connection and the ability to clearly communicate one’s desires with clarity and kindness.

These early lessons not only taught me the art of horsemanship, but they also instilled in me a deeper understanding of the power of connection. It was a transformative experience that laid the foundation for my journey as a horsewoman and a leader, forever shaping my approach to horses and life itself.